How do you succeed 100% of the time? Well, you don’t fail! Shit. Easy. Next question. (Two lines in and I’m already a jackass)
Here comes the hokey.
To succeed is to not fail. To not fail is to succeed. Have you turned yourself around, yet? So, how does a person “not fail”? Well, if you don’t want to fail, all you have to do is remove it from your vocabulary. 100% no joke. Just edit that concept right out of your story.
Failure is nothing more than an idea that you choose to proceed with or not, no different than making a sandwich or thinking about vacuuming the house. To say that you’ve failed, is to say that whatever it is that you’ve done (or not done, I guess), endured, sacrificed, compromised, poured yourself into and not “accomplished”, did absolutely nothing for you and the universe around you. The rebuttal to is simple; that’s impossible!
Too often, and by no one’s fault, we need to tangibly measure what it is we’ve done or haven’t done. And, it needs to come in the form of a gold medal or a big house or something we’d cut out of the paper and hang on the refrigerator. Truthfully, it doesn’t even really even need to be that prolific. More power to you if you have an abundance of those in your life but, the good things aren’t the issue here. It’s the stuff that beats us up or drags us through the mud or makes us think, “I can’t believe this is happening to me”. That’s the stuff, that we all have, that completely and entirely opposes what we’re really here to be.
I’m not going to suggest that “failure” be looked at as an opportunity for something else, or a door closing but a window opening, or something that tests your character; all that really can be a bunch of hokey pokey. I’m here to suggest that the idea of failure be abandoned all together. It offers you nothing but the prospect to bring yourself away from your true vibration of energy, your true place; Love.
To be really blunt, we all fail dozens of times a day. We fail when we treat another human being poorly; we fail when we treat ourselves poorly; we fail when we’re not emanating that vibrational energy of Love. But, because we’re largely unaware of most of that stuff, we just keep on truckin’. When something bigger doesn’t go our way; like a job we didn’t get or a shitty relationship we had or that we gained a few pounds, we go right ahead and hang that failure sign around our necks.
You NEVER fail. You EXPERIENCE. You experience whatever it is that is part of you for that day, week, year or lifetime. Anything and everything can happen to you, but it has no power over you to change what and who you truly are at the core of your being. There is only one thing that transcends the anything and everything that can happen to you. It is the one thing that we all possess regardless of anything worldly. It is not just an “idea” like everything else. It is what you are and why you are.
Be Love.
