Back to university, I was with 2 friends, A & B. We were in an elevator and A was in a bad mood, I didn’t know what to say and B is the elder one and I turned to B and said “B, please, say something”. B said “say nothing”. I was upset with B as in my opinion he should have said some nice things to comfort A. But after a while, I changed my mind. There are many reasons sometimes we are just silent. Also sometimes say nothing doesn’t mean non-supportive. I remember back to high school, a friend of mine told me that she didn’t know what to say when I was crying for something and she said “I just want to be with you for this moment, so you know you are not being sad all alone. I want to let you know that I am worried about you”. That is important to me. People are all different, sometimes we just honestly don’t know what to offer; sometimes we are worried what we will say will not help and may make it worse; and sometimes we believe just accompanying this person is the best we can do. Although to be, I always have something to offer as in my opinion, I don’t want to just watch my beloved ones crying and crying. I don’t like to hear my friends say “oh, no one understands and no one cares about”. It is true that maybe no one understands what you are going through as that person is not going through what you are going through. However, there are people care for you, yes there is!!!! There is no single person in this world that no body cares. We always have someone we care about and there are also people there care for us. Even you didn’t draw anything on your blackboard, but I can still see something there, which is LOVE!!!! 🙂 Be love and be bright!
Back to university, I was with 2 friends, A & B. We were in an elevator and A was in a bad mood, I didn’t know what to say and B is the elder one and I turned to B and said “B, please, say something”. B said “say nothing”. I was upset with B as in my opinion he should have said some nice things to comfort A. But after a while, I changed my mind. There are many reasons sometimes we are just silent. Also sometimes say nothing doesn’t mean non-supportive. I remember back to high school, a friend of mine told me that she didn’t know what to say when I was crying for something and she said “I just want to be with you for this moment, so you know you are not being sad all alone. I want to let you know that I am worried about you”. That is important to me. People are all different, sometimes we just honestly don’t know what to offer; sometimes we are worried what we will say will not help and may make it worse; and sometimes we believe just accompanying this person is the best we can do. Although to be, I always have something to offer as in my opinion, I don’t want to just watch my beloved ones crying and crying. I don’t like to hear my friends say “oh, no one understands and no one cares about”. It is true that maybe no one understands what you are going through as that person is not going through what you are going through. However, there are people care for you, yes there is!!!! There is no single person in this world that no body cares. We always have someone we care about and there are also people there care for us. Even you didn’t draw anything on your blackboard, but I can still see something there, which is LOVE!!!! 🙂 Be love and be bright!
Sometimes, nothing needs to be said. Love is always trying to speak to us. 🙂