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Two things – i: there are no coincidences in life and, ii: pure Love is blind.

I’m not usually a dilly-dallyer; this past Friday morning was an exception. I was shuffling my feet to make the 6:51 bus. If I didn’t get it, no big deal; the 7:04 was close behind. Ordinarily, I would livened my step to catch the 6:51, but well, see point i. The 7:04 it was.

i: there are no coincidences in life.

About halfway through my Friday morning commute, a young woman boarded the bus. By this time, most of the seats were occupied leaving her with the sole option of sitting in the front inward facing seats. With me in my usual forward facing seat, this girl was now part of my permanent landscape.

Unless I was to have made the concerted choice to divert my gaze or close my eyes, every action of this young woman was directly in my field of vision. With really no purposeful intention, I found my eyes fixed on her.

She shifted in her seat to get settled; she straightened her toque; she had a sip of her coffee; then, she pulled her phone out of her purse. This is when it changed. Initially, for whatever reason, this woman had captured my mind’s attention. As I watched her “interact” with her phone, my Heart’s attention was drawn in.

She frowned with frustration, raised her eyebrows in surprise, pursed her lips in disagreement and smiled with happiness. With each expression, I felt more and more connected to this person. It was as though her emotion became my emotion. When she attempted to hold back an unexpected laugh, I couldn’t help but to genuinely smile – like, one of those smiles you couldn’t get rid of if you tried. It made me happy to see her happy. Knowing why or what had made her smile wasn’t of importance. My Heart was only interested in her happiness. I felt my Heart was invested in her Heart; I truly cared about her. And, that’s when I got it.

ii: pure Love is blind.

I’ve read about it, tried to write about it, spoken about it and, in fact, it’s what the[heart]movement embodies – being Love. And now, I had finally experienced that universal Love towards my fellow man – a stranger. The back story of our triumphs and challenges don’t matter, what matters is that we all experience them. One of life’s greatest paradoxes is that “we’re all different and yet the same”. I thought, every emotion I’ve experienced, this girl has, too. Every feeling my Heart has felt, hers has too. This was our connection. This is the connection we all share; our Heart.

The reason that the title of this post uses the word “found” is because, in that moment, I found a Love that’s always been in my Heart. A Love that doesn’t need to know the person it’s for; a Love that doesn’t care what that person stands for or what they look like or what they believe in. I think, for about ten minutes last Friday morning, I was being Love.

But, I have to be honest, the feeling I experienced on the bus that morning passed almost as quickly as it came. What stayed, however, is that I now know it’s in there. I now know that I can be Love. If those ten minutes on the bus is at all the promise of what being Love is, then I think I might just sell my truck.

be Love.


it’s been right under my nose this whole time….

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Being Love isn’t an overnight transformation. The mechanics behind it are the same as anything else – practice, stumble, learn, rest, repeat. It’s how every success is won.

And, success needs planning – what resources do you need? What are the challenges? What are the actions? A strong foundation is a constant towards any goal; being Love is no different.

We need more than foundation and planning, though. We need inspiration. Real life inspiration. We need that motivator to spark us, to lead us, to be an example to emulate. And, I don’t mean an untouchable celebrity, athlete or even a prominent philanthropist. I mean someone “real” in our own life. But, where do you look for inspiration to be Love? Jesus, Buddha, Mother Theresa, Gandhi? Maybe? As amazing as those people are, that still doesn’t solve “untouchable” problem.

So, WHERE DO I GET INSPIRATION? It’s a question that I’ve been asking myself ever more frequently. This journey I’m on is absolutely where I need to be, but it’s tough. It’s dark. I fall. I get tired. I wonder if it’s all worth it? I’ve struggled to find inspiration on many occasions. I’ve read the “quote of the day”, I’ve watched the Youtube videos, and sometimes it’s just not enough to really connect to. I needed something more, and so the universe answered my question. Standing five foot nothing, literally, right under my nose. There she was, my mom.

Unequivocally, my ma is a wonderful wonderful person. She lives a simple life; the happiness of her family being far and away the most important. It’s not even as though she sees through the largely meaningless and draconian dogma of Western civilization, she just doesn’t even care about it. It’s all about her family.

To her, it doesn’t matter where I work or what I wear. She doesn’t care about how I look or the truck I drive. Being cool or being a dork is all the same in her eyes (between my brother and I, I’m the cool one, by the way). She just wants me to be happy. And the way she contributes to that, is by Love. All. The. Time.

There are definitely instances where we don’t see eye to eye (not a cheap jab at her being three apples high), and it’s usually because I’ve been a jerk. Regardless, as tense as a situation can be, she always does something to show how much she Loves me in her own way.

It’s a choice she makes, it’s not because she’s my mother and “she has to”. Her Love is the brand of Love that will never expire no matter what I do or don’t do. It’s something very special about her. Even when I semi-joke about winning the lottery and ask her what she would want, she very unsemi-jokingly replies, “I just want you to be happy”. She truly is inspiration.

We all have this person in our lives. I promise you that. And so, who’s your real life inspiration? Open your Heart and let them lead you. Pretty soon, you’ll be the leader.

be Love.


change is good

to the readers of the[heart]movement

Dear Movers,

Firstly, with kindest sincerity, thank you to everyone that has offered encouraging words and support. It really is great to see the ‘likes’, views and visits by all of you. We’ll do our best to keep our place a worthwhile weekly stop.

Since inception, the[heart]movement has been consistent in its inconsistency. Effective right now, we’re giving a bit of a schedule a try. Heart to Heart posts will be uploaded each Sunday evening/Monday morning, in hopes of providing a positive step to the week. The “Chalkboard of Love” will kick off the weekend each Thursday evening/Friday morning. We’re definitely looking forward to being a bit more accommodating for you.

Again, thank you very very much for being who you are.

be Love!